I’m going to use another point from Louise Bruton’s list (http://www.buzzfeed.com/louisebruton/things-youll-know-if-youre-a-wheelchair-user)
as the basis for tonight’s post. I’ve spoken about how ‘sometimes, people talk about you like you’re not there’ but I’d like
to discuss the problem further as it happens on a regular basis, more so than
being patronized come to think of it. In an ideal world, everyone would treat
me as a standard human being but that’s not the case. This doesn’t apply to my
readers but there are different ways people converse with me. I must add that
it is preferable to be addressed as a complete idiot rather than not at all.
Whenever someone ignores my
existence, I am filled with rage but the person can’t tell because they don’t
look down. At least when I hear a patronizing tone directed at me, I can blame
ignorance but I have no respect for people who speak above me. It’s so rude. If
I stared at a woman’s chest instead of talking to her, I’d get a slap. Yet,
certain people see my carer as a mouthpiece who speaks on my behalf. Wrong. It
may sometimes be difficult for me to talk clearly but I can make decisions and
communicate my thoughts.
Another similar issue that stems
from people not talking to me is assumption. I can’t think of an exact example
right now but I have been out and people say to my friend or whoever’s with me
‘is it OK to do X with him?’ Hold up. Why is that question not being directed
at me? I am not a child who needs a chaperone. I am an adult (in case you don’t
know) who can answer questions. I know that’s hard to believe sometimes. Don’t
assume that wheelchair=no brain. Find out first.
Remember to check out http://fansviewpoint.com/premier-predictions-7/
and laugh at how rubbish I am at guessing football results. They’re almost as
bad as my FIFA skills.
Bye for now!
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